hit me with your honest take on the reality of having two or more kids?

Is there something specific you want to know more about? I have 3. One turned 3 at the end of April. One turns 2 in June. My baby is 11wks old. Does it have hard moments ? Of course, but the older two play together often, there’s fights as there is between siblings. And they love their baby sister - they’re actually super gentle and they try to help me in looking after her. She fits right in and we’ve got a bit of a routine for the 4 of us. The house is lived in and washing never ends. But I wouldn’t have it any other way.

I have 5; 13 year age gap between my first 2 and #3-5.. I'm of the mind that more is better 💁 I can't wait for grandbabies 🫣

I have 2 ( 4 years apart ) and I’m pregnant and my youngest is 4. Honestly, they have their moments but my kids do fight a lot 🤣

I have a 13yr gap between 2+3 😂🤣😂 we don’t plan these things. I mean yes he was “planned”, hubby woke up one day 13yrs later and said I want a boy do you wanna try for a boy, but it’s not something I envisioned would happen lol if you want to have a baby 4yrs later then do that 💁🏻‍♀️ weirder things in life have happened. I had to start over, rebuy everything again, my older kids were in school so it looks like he’s an only child because I’m just always w him, the last child. His sisters are amazing though, spoils him, treats him well. He’d be well looked after in his teen years by his older sisters. Me and my sisters are 4yrs apart and we are like besties were very close, I see them 1-2* a week every week. They are closer to each other coz they are 1 Yr apart, but we as a trio group are a close knit group of sisters. It’s not that big of a gap now that we’re all in our 30’s and all mums now.

I have 3 my older 2 are 2 years apart then there is an 9 year gap between 1st and 3rd and an 7 year gap between 2nd and 3rd I just get on with it. I wing it you cant really plan parenting all kids are different.

What ya wanna know I have 3 boys the first two are about 3 years apart 13 an 11 and my youngest is only 2

I have a 4yr gap with my brother, we were really close as kids but we barely talk now as 25/29, we’re both busy and shit happened in our family so maybe that’s why but I wish we were closer although there’s so many siblings that are 🤞 even with large gaps ❤️ that I love to see, just really hard in the time being honestly as a mom myself with 3 under 3. 4yr gap sounds easier than anything less (like us) so the first is big enough to not need nearly as much help/can help you better too! Good luck you def can do it❤️