I’m the same but the opposite way around. Anything my 2 year old to touches my 4 year old suddenly wants and all hell breaks loose. We do 5 mins each and try and teach about taking turns but usually it’s my year year old who ends up getting their way 🫣😕
I am in the exact same position, one minute there playing nicely and then it’s chaos 😮 my 19 month old is at the throwing stage, I keep telling myself everything is a phase. I can’t remember it being this difficult with my 4 year old when he was younger 🤣