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But yeah now we def arent gonna go over to his apt. Like he has major anger issues and I don’t think he will actually get help and change. I’m tired of his outbursts effecting me and my kids so much! It’s totally not okay. Gonna finally take a nap and my dad is gonna watch baby for me so I can nap. Took me over an hour to get my anxiety levels down after him yelling at me like that. I don’t want my kids thinking this shit is normal or acceptable. I’m thinking I’m so done with this relationship at this point. K pumped some milk so my dad can feed baby. I hope y’all get to take a nap if you want or need one today! Know you are loved and you don’t gotta just settle! I am trying to make a stable as little stress as possible environment for my children. He is the only issue right now in our lives. Not gonna put up with this shit anymore! Sorry you aren’t having a good Mother’s Day!
Why hate it? Just do something you wanna do. Be outside, it’s beautiful today. We should all be grateful and not “expect” things.
my husbands in the navy. he just left me bc he has someone else he’s interested over there and according to him bc he’s different now with different interests and he’s growing apart from me. he wants to live it up and party without any worries. 5 years together thrown out the window just like that , happy mother’s day to me 😃
@Cassie no one said anything about expectations, babe. That's a reach.
@Cassie that's not why I hate it. I expected nothing from anyone today. You're simply one of those people who assumes shit constantly and then projects your assumptions onto everyone else. God. Why are people like this??? Especially when I'm clearly having an awful fcking day. How do you know I haven't lost a baby???? How do you know that I'm not trapped in a controlling situation??? You really should watch yourself. It's quite disgusting behavior. This post was clearly to see if anyone else is in the same boat as me, but no, someone just HAAAAAAS to take it upon themselves to ruin a supportive environment with their nastiness and sarcasm 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 be well. So glad to know I'm not one of those.
It’s always been an afterthought kind of day so it’s rough for me. My oldest is 13 and we have 3 kids together. We’ve been married 16 years. So to have complex feelings over a day you’re supposed to be celebrated it’s rough. I have always gone all out for Father’s Day. I’m sorry your day has been ruined. So far, it’s been a good day. He made sure that the kids put some thought into homemade cards, he bought flowers and my girls brought me about a dozen eggs for breakfast in bed. It was comical.
@Cassie that's all you have to say 🤣🤣🤣 wow.
@Cassie no, but you sure do piss on them, completely ignorant to what they're actually talking about. I mentioned different situations that might make a person dislike mother's Day. Not only me, but anyone on this thread or reading this thread. And you have absolutely no remorse over the judgemental comment you made. What is wrong with you? That is gross. But go ahead and sit on your high horse 🤢 wow. People will never cease to amaze me.
@Cassie wooooooow. Telling women who lost babies that they're "expecting too much" lol. And you're just nonchalantly like "woopsie!". That is awful. Genuinely.
@Kira I’m so sorry you are going through this. But you are right, your kids shouldn’t have to go through this. They probably are fed up too and it might be time to put yourself and your kids first. It was Mother’s Day! Thanks fully he left and you were able to spend the day with the best humans ever those that made you a mom It could always be worse I wish you the best! Please think of yourself and your kiddos Ps don’t listen to Cassie she’s def not happy.
My sons father pretty much just ruined it. Luckily he left so we will have our peace the rest of the day. Today was special not only bc of Mother’s Day but bc we were having our son dedicated at church this morning. He asked off for work and everything. I told him I was exhausted and he wanted to take a nap too. He normally won’t sleep on the bed with no sheets on it so I just mentioned when I walked into my room, oh I figured you would have put the sheets on by now, that’s okay we can do it when we wake up! He just flew off the handle and started yelling at me telling me I’m always bitching at him. I tried to explain to him I wasn’t bitching at all and stop the screaming at me but he was in a full on rage. My 12 yr old daughter came into my room and told him to stop yelling at me and that he was ruining Mother’s Day. He got even more mad and stormed out and left. I was planning on going to his apt tonight with our 2 month old: I also have a 5 yr old abd my dad planned on watching him