Need a rant - lazy husband or just hormonal
So I’m around 7-8 weeks, been feeling pretty rubbish for weeks but symptoms eased today so managed to get a load of housework done.
I’ve washed and dried 3 loads of washing today (while WFH) and my husband has tomorrow off work to look after our daughter 3 as he does every Wednesday. I asked if he could put the washing away tomorrow, he hesitated and said it depends on what they have on (bearing in mind he’s got 11 hours to do this while im out of the house).
I wasn’t happy so just did it myself and now he says I’m being a martyr. I am but I also don’t know if tomorrow will be a bad symptom day and then have to sort it when I get in from the office and I snapped and called him lazy. He said I’m just trying to make him look bad, but I feel like he’s doing that all on his own.
I get were you are coming fromI have been there, so I can give a few tips First leave a piece a papper with a to do list for him to do this reminds them to do it. Or just before you leave ask him to wash the dishes sweep the floor and most time they will feel guilty for not doing it and just do it . Third get rid of half you and your kids clothes, toys, makeup so that's it not over whelming because let's face it we are left to the most . Just some advice it's upto you 🤗