Anal?
Ok so I am recently trying to attempt more anal sex. Especially for when I’m on my cycle . I usually wear a disc for a less messier period sex , but sometimes it’s a little harder to climax. I suggested to my partner we try it, but he knows that he needs to be really gentle due to my trauma there. He was so gentle and very kind, and made sure I was ok the entire time. At one point it did feel very nice and we were both able to climax BUT the afterwards , I guess once the adrenaline was gone is when it started feeling painful. Is it always like this when Doing anal? Or just bc it was the first time 😭
It depends how he goes in Did he slowly (woth loads of lube) enter you and when he got to your internal sphincter just wait and it will actually open and allow him to enter due to the gentke pressure held against it It will generally hurt if they have forced their way in (on purpose or not)