My heart is breaking 💔

This is the first time I've posted. I'm not pregnant, my sister is carrying my husband and my baby. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 9 years this month. it's consumed my entire life. It's all i want. We had one pregnancy which ended up ectopic 4-1/2 years ago, with no luck since then. This seemed like the answer to our prayers. We think she is miscarrying and her words were "It's not looking good at all. I'm so sorry Hannah." And I feel so broken hearted... I was so excited! I thought this was finally it. For the first time my entire adult life, i was able to feel happy for pregnant women. I was able to feel a genuine good feeling at their good news instead of selfish hurt that always makes me feel like crap. Like I'm a horrible friend. I just want to go hide in a hole somewhere. I already started buying things and clearing out my spare bedroom. I already planned telling my mother-in law. My mom is so excited, she is going to be so devastated. My niece is 12 and she has been through this journey with me the whole time. This is a blow to my entire family! This is an absolute tragedy and I feel like I can't breathe! I'm sorry I'm all over the place, but I really needed to vent.

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I'm so so sorry that this is happening to you 😢

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Thank you ❤️

❤️❤️❤️ sending you love xxx

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I’m so sorry. My heart breaks for you. Just have faith and you will be blessed with your 🌈 baby 💕

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Thank you, I know I will. I can't give up now

I’m so sorry for your loss Hannah😔💕

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My heart absolutely breaks for you. I am so sorry to read this. You are incredibly strong to have gone through all of this. Wishing you all the best and really really hope things are ok xxx

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Thank you so much!

So sorry how devastating, sending a big hug to you 🫂 and I hope in the future you get your rainbow baby x

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Blessings, poor weary soul. I beg for you to be comforted and peace to be brought at long last.

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I am praying for peace and comfort for you. I’m so sorry, be gentle to yourself and know that you are not alone. ❤️

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Thank you and I will

Dear sweet Hannah, I pray that your pain is taken away and replaced with the joy that only a child can bring. You’ve been going through this for 9 years now, and it shows how strong and resilient you are. Do not give up! You will have your baby. Despite the pain felt in your text, I can tell what a beautiful person you are and you deserve to become a mom. I send you, your husband, sister, niece and rest of the family lots of positive and comforting vibes. 💕

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I instantly teared up when i saw this comment. It sounded like the way my mom speaks to me. Thank you so much! ❤️

Awww im so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you x

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Hannah, I’m so sorry to read your post. My heart breaks for you. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you’re feeling. Just know I’m sending all my positive vibes your way.

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Thank you so much!❤️

I'm so so sorry. I hope all turns out well for you and you get your rainbow baby soon

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Thank you!

So sorry to hear this 💔 but don't lose hope. You will have your rainbow baby soon. I know a couple who had thier 1st child after 20years! And now they have 2 boys. So have hope x

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Thank you! I really love hearing stories like that. It does give me hope because there really is still time.

Yes definitely your time will come. You just need to have hope. And stay positive even though it may be soo difficult. Xx

I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I had a severe miscarriage and it caused my kidneys to fail and got me super sick. I had a really hard time trying to get pregnant for 3-4 years. In my opinion, I feel like it’ll happen when your body is ready for it. It can take awhile to get pregnant after a miscarriage. But it’s not impossible. Even if a doctor tells you it’s impossible, doesn’t mean it is. My step mom got told it was completely impossible for her to ever get pregnant and she had 2 little girls. But it took a long time. As far as your sister goes, I hope all turns out well for her. Just gotta stay strong and still support her even if that’s what’s happening. Because she’s going to feel like a major failure. I hope the best for you guys, and just stay strong!

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Sorry to hear this. Can’t imagine the pain you’re in. Please stay strong. You’re an amazing person and my heart goes out to you.

Praying for you! You will get through this. Us women are stronger than we think. I pray your sister can try again! I had 3 miscarriages it is so tough I’m sorry.

This is so heartbreaking to read. I’m so sorry you are going through this. I know this feels awful but please don’t give up hope. I pray for comfort at this time and I hope all your prayers get answered. Sending you hugs

Prayers to you, your husband and sister. May god bless you with your rainbow baby ♥️♥️♥️

I’m so sorry mama, I’m no stranger to loss and my heart hearts yours. 💕 I’m a post of a loss group on fb that would welcome you with open arms. You’re feelings are completely valid. I will include you in my prayers. 💕💕

Praying for you guys praying its not a miscarriage

Praying everything ended up okay 💕