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So MIL is desperate for updated photos.. everyday!! š. I havenāt sent anything for a long time because I found out she posts things on Facebook, a group chat with friends and anyone in her phone on WhatsApp she can send it to. I have a big problem with that because I donāt know these people and what they will do now my babyās photo is in their phone. It makes me feel extremely uncomfortable, she continues to ask for photos but I ignore it because I know what happens when she gets them.
I do post some photos on my Instagram which is private and my only followers are a small amount of people I know personally and can trust.. What do I do? How can I tell her next time she asks for photos? Babyās dad continues to send her photos and update her even after I expressed how it made me feel š. Coming up to 6 months now and itās just a big problem.
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My MIL step daughter (who my husband and I have never met) decided to get a picture of my son off my MIL Facebook page and upload it to a website without our permission. My husband and I kicked off (politely) about it and nothing was done about it for weeks. My MIL and her partner said they understood why we were annoyed but they definitely donāt! It really pissed me off so Iāve stopped sending pictures for the time being xx
I feel the same way its sucks we have to be careful with our photos and cant trust anyone even family nowadays i dont know how to help with your guy the only way he might learn if something has the happen