2nd miscarriage in under 2 years

Warning may cause trigger… . . . On the 15th of November (1 month after I got married) I found out that my little cell had disappeared and I was left with just the sack…I had a scan 2 weeks previous as I had a small amount of bleeding & had an vaginal scan. I had a D&C on the 22nd of November as I didn’t want to be in any pain. This is my second miscarriage in under 2 years, we’ve been trying since 2021 (so almost 3 years) and it took us 1 year with the first pregnancy and then 18 months with the second. The worst part is I found out I was pregnant the day after our wedding. We don’t have another year to get pregnant. My husband is 41 in a few weeks and I’ll be 39 in March…I’ve been signed off work till the 20th of December…life is just unfair at times
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I definitely can relate with you my guy and I has loss four babies in 2.5 years. The feelings you get after experiencing it over and over. Just wondering if you will have this 🌈 baby is also stressful. Have you check with a fertility clinic yet?

Don’t worry I had an ectopic, miscarriage that needed a D&C, chemical pregnancy and my beautiful healthy baby girl.

I went to a napro (natural procreation) dr showed up struggling to get pregnant and they put me on progesterone to help sustain my pregnancy as a precaution. Currently nursing trying to monitor my cycle to test and see if I need more progesterone for cuter

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Miscarriage = we can get pregnant!! Which is the hardest part

I'm so sorry to hear this. I had two miscarriages then the 3rd time was a healthy pregnancy and I have a2 year old son now. It can happen🤞 you can get pregnant which is a good sign

I’ve known so many friends who have had multiple miscarriages, late miscarriages or a still born…we won’t get any help on the nhs till we’ve had 3….which is total BS…just feel so sad atm x

Sorry to hear this. Have you both gone to your GP for basic testing? You are eligible for this after 6 months of trying if you are over 35 years old. If tests come back abnormal they will refer you to a fertility clinic for further testing and treatment

I’m so sorry for your loss. Grieving a miscarriage is such a painful and lonely event, and I hope you at least see there is a community of women here who feel deeply for you.

People ask the most idiotic questions & so insensitive aswell x

Thank you all for your kind words & advise 🩵

I’m so sorry !

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I know how you feel. Our daughter was incredibly easy to conceive and the pregnancy was smooth despite me being 38 at the time. She's now 3 in February and we have been trying since she's a year old. We've also had 2 heartbreaking miscarriages and I'm now 41, going to be 42 in about 2 weeks. I have no advice other than keep trying. We are. Baby dust and great news for all of us trying soon hopefully xx

I am sorry that you have to go through this and yes this is so unfair. If it can give you a bit of hope, I also had 2 miscarriages in 2 years and it took us a year to get pregnant between each. We’ve been told “it’s just very bad luck”. I am now 34 weeks pregnant and everything is going well 🌈 Request testing from the NHS or private, be gentle with yourself, eat well, do not give up.

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I understand how you feel I had 4 miscarriages in 2020 all back to back. Ask your doctor to test if you have robertsonian translocation as this is what did it for me, I only have a 20% of having a baby. In total I have had 6 miscarriages, I could never get past 12 weeks, It’s horrible and really drags you down but don’t lose hope, I hope you will have your little rainbow baby eventually, keep you head up high, if you need someone to talk to about it message me ❤️

I’m in a similar boat. Been trying since September ‘21 and I’ve just turned 39. It took us 18 months to fall pregnant the first time and that ended in MMC. I found out this month that I was pregnant again and within days the dream was gone. I had a chemical. Heartbroken 😞 totally get where you’re coming from x

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