in Mamas with depression, anxiety, and other mental health disorders

Someone spreading rumours and spreading lies about you

What do you do if you found out that person you were with was going round telling people , you are stalking them saying that your jealous , in secret making you out to be a crazy person , I have never stalked anyone in my life I certainly don't get jealous its an ugly trate I have care and consideration for others , have heart that full of love not hatred but there's someone out there telling other women nieve people that I'm a stalker , and jealous person I don't know what to do I can't inbox them and tell these women cus that makes me look insane and I'm not that kinda person at all im full time working mother that struggling with emotionally depression this is effecting me quite badly that people believe these lies of where I live , I can't talk to any of my neighbours cus of it im afraid to walk into my sons school because of it , its effective me massively im not sure how to deal with this issue im afraid to go out side the house , im so scared , my temper is getting quite angry which im trying not explode , im so afraid to talk to anyone local this has effect me massively , this is the only place I can talk on .

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The most "crazy" place where we all exist is in someone else's imagination. You just keep being who you know you really are and ignore the haters. Anyone that really cares about you will come to you and ask what's going on here. I wouldn't assume that everyone gossips, nor would I assume that everyone believes the gossip. Hold your head and you do you. You can always come back here when you need to and message me if you need to vent more. It will be okay. ❤️

I would ignore it and kill them with kindness and respect. As a women when others (esp men) say oh she’s crazy she’s a stalker she’s jealous etc I always think “ok what did YOU do to MAKE HER crazy though” and I don’t let what other people say especially men form my opinion about them and I feel like a lot of other women are starting to become the same way bc they’ve been on the same exact side before of being labeled “crazy” etc

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Do you know who it is who’s making these lies up? If you do and they are of malicious content then get in touch with the police. I had a similar experience with my ex friend. I ended our friendship because I was fed up of her manipulation and snidey comments about my daughter influencing her daughter etc amongst other issues. Anyway she accused me of vandalising her car which I never did it was all lies. Anyway she then went on to send pics of me to my mum and my ex in a compromising position. Anyway I got in touch with the police and she’s had to sign a form to stay completely away from me otherwise it goes further. Hold your head up high if people are genuine and they know you then they won’t believe the gossip and the lies. If they do believe it then they were never true friends anyway. Good luck sweets x