He’s already made his decision and his position clear. He’s focused on his life and future, not yours or the family’s. He made his mind up months ago and the act of cheating just cemented it. I’m so sorry. You aren’t his focus though now, so you need to concentrate on yourself too. What do you want? How happy are you? What does your daughter and future baby need to be happy and healthy?
@Sarah they need a healthy mother, i want the best for my kids but at the same time i think ive sacrificed enough and I need to find myself again and move on. I know i deserve so much more and better. There is just a lot of pain to process right now
Then I hope you find the strength to do what you know you need to do and that 2025 is the year where you really find happiness ❤️ You are about to have another beautiful baby and you have an opportunity to really fall in love with who you want to be now. HIS LOSS!
@Sarah thank you so much! I hope and pray for this too. 💜💜 I just need to be strong enough to be able to co-parent and let him be around in the house at the minute and for the next few weeks if i can cope with that. I would never stop my kids or their relationship but i know its going to be super tough😔
Dump him- Start 2025 as you mean to go on, happy and healthy for your babies ❤️
Dump him. Unless you want a poly relationship. If you stay with him he will do it again, because you forgave him after the first time.