Baby Daddy Drama

How can I get my BD to pay his maintenance?? He missed last weeks payment and unsure if he will pay tomorrow!! I rely on the money to buy food , formula and nappies etc for our 2 children.

I feel like sometimes why did I have kids with this man when he just yells at our kids especially a 4 month old for no reason he don’t want to support us as much I have found a job and he called me lazy for the past 2 years because he wanted me to be a stay at home mom and now it a big issue and I had to step up cuz he sucks at working he works for 6-1 year then gets fired I’m overwhelmed with the kids cuz I’m with them always with no help I can’t ask my family for help cuz he calls me a bad mom and absent parent that I hate my kids and everything I’m just tired sometimes I feel like taking a vacation to run away

Officially cut ties with the father of my child and I just want to cry. I'm only 3 months pregnant and struggling with the fact that I can't give my son the family he deserves, but I had to protect my peace. I keep telling myself I'm doing the right thing but am I really? I can't even tell my family because they expect so much more from me. This is my first pregnancy and I love my baby so I don't regret my decision to keep him, I just wish things were different.

Every time I let this man come back home with us I’m always reminded on why I wanted him to leave. It’s hard because he’s my only help with our son besides my mom. She has her own life and stuff going on so it’s not her responsibility to just be there. I want to be able to raise our son in a two parent household but it doesn’t work. He’s just inconsiderate.

I’ve tried to communicate with him (I’m blue he’s black) I had to stop contact because my daughter was unsafe and then I started contact up again after numerous phone calls with children services giving me advice on how I can continue with the contact and they said to do supervised visits that way he can see his daughter and I know she’s safe and I’m right there if she wants me but now he’s been given several chances to have unsupervised visits he drops her off early because she won’t eat or just cancels because he’s got a stuffy nose I’ve offered for him to take her to the illuminations and take her out for the weekend and he says “I’ll see” “I don’t know if I’ll have the money” and that’s always his excuses. She’s now lashing out and I’m trying so hard to help him understand that she’s not okay