Birthdays!
Yet again another birthday of my dd where I've been made to feel angry, in laws have sent a card yet again (even though never properly met her-shes 2) saying happy birthday lots love p.s put £10 in tin at nanny's for you. (She's never been 'nanny's' or even met her except a party once and didn't pay attention then!' And then the love you lots at the end we dont even speak to them 😡😡😡😡 how can I make this stop! makes me so livid waiting for all there cards come through every year 😡😡😡
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You can’t control what others do, because at the end of the day she’ll probably keep sending them but you getting so angry is only affecting you really. It’s like drinking poison and expecting the other person to feel it. She’s 2, she isn’t gonna have a clue what cards say anyway.
If it comes in the mail, then instead of opening it next time, just put return to sender and send it back.
The only thing that you can control is your reaction. People will always annoy you but you can stop letting it bother you. Just laugh it off as your daughter doesn't know anything about this so it doesn't affect her in the slightest.