Alcoholic husband

My husband is an alcoholic and while I do love him I’m not sure I can take it anymore. When he’s sober, he’s great, but multiple times a week he drinks and when he drinks he drinks a lot and ends up treating me like crap. I’m at my wits end with it. Even when he’s not being a complete jerk, he’s still irritating the crap out of me. I’ll have work in the morning and he’ll come on and out of the room over and over turning the light on and off and yelling my name just so he can talk about moving over and over again. He’ll try and make me drive him places in the middle of the night (at least he’s not driving himself) when all I wanna do is sleep. I can’t even get my babies down without him waking us all up. I don’t know how much longer I can take it. Part of me wants to separate but I don’t really want to divorce. Per my religious beliefs, I’d be okay with divorce but not remarriage after divorce and I’m not sure I’m ready to commit to a life of singleness , that and I do genuinely love him and just wish he’d accept that he needs to get help.

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God is okay with you finding peace and love. If he can’t help him then no one really can. And you have to think in you and your babies

Because of my religious beliefs, I don’t believe in divorce either. God doesn’t say that you can’t set boundaries. Does he believe that he has a problem? Have you talked to him about it? Is he willing to get help? My husband is an alcoholic too. He is sober now, but I had to put some serious boundaries in place because I was in the same spot you were if you need someone to talk to hit me up.

This sounds like a really bad situation for you to be in as a mom. He needs to get help because he’s got kids to raise and a wife to help. This is a responsibility. He can find coping help through therapy/counseling. And if he does not tell him you’re going to have to leave. You see this starting, it’s going to be continuous and only make matters worse with even bigger issues later down the road if this does not get nipped in the butt now

@Nicole I’ll message you