Should I/shouldn't i
Is it my responsibility to keep my little boy's dad in the loop with things that are happening and how he is
For context: he sees him when it's convenient for him yet moans he misses him and is missing all of his milestones, he never asks how he is and so far in April he's seen him 4 times for a total of 6 hours!
He moans that he has to message asking how he is so now he's just not going to because he's bored of 'putting in all of the effort just to see if he's okay' - should I be updating him?
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No if he wants updates he should be putting in the effort
Honestly, I told my baby daddy I’m no longer calling him to let him know about nothing regarding any appointments or when I give birth if he doesn’t show the slightest bit of concern. I have a 5 year old as well so, I don’t have the time to constantly pick up the phone and make it my business to call and inform you. The phone works both ways so, if he can’t figure out how to find the time to call you, then ohhhhhh well. You’re not his secretary. You aren’t getting paid to keep him in the loop. He’s a PARENT. He needs to act like one.
Nope. That’s on him to do.
Absolutely not