@Anna 2 weeks ago and don’t go back for another 2. See too me it’s crazy I don’t feel kicks, my first didn’t have have full function in his legs and at 21 weeks I was having to count kicks to keep track of his leg function.
Maybe you have an anterior placenta - that can make feeling kicks take longer. My last pregnancy I had that and it took about to week 24/25 to feel strong regular movement. This pregnancy at 22 I feel strong regular movement. Could be placenta placement. If ever you are worried you can go in for 20min fetal monitoring or if you WANT a freebie ultrasound just say you were in a car accident (so they have a reason to bill your insurance ) and want one to be sure everything is ok
@Tiffany my Dr is always booked like 2 weeks out so that’s the same as my appointment at this point anyway. When I he’d placenta previa earlier in my pregnancy they couldn’t get me in for anything other a urine and told me my urine was fine and if it got worse just to go to the ER. ER argued with me when I got there and I literally had to tell them my OB told me to go. Ultrasound at the ER definitely wouldn’t be a freebie even if I said car wreck. They’d bill insurance and I’d still have to pay. The Previa one was almost 2,000 dollars even after insurance.
When was the last time you saw your care provider? 21 weeks is still a little early for kicks. I didn't feel kicks consistently until 24 weeks. The cramping and constant pain is more concerning to me.