How’d I end up here ?
This is my second pregnancy and it’s been a rollercoaster ! I’m 29 weeks pregnant and decided that I don’t want any parts of dad .. he’s been leaving degrading voicemails and making threats to knock my teeth out when he sees me . I thought when I had baby #2 I’d be married or at least in a loving relationship 😵💫 I just want my body rubbed and to be told how beautiful I am while growing this beautiful baby boy . I HATE IT BUT I KNOW THAT I CANT GIVE IN THE DAMAGE IS DONE . I just want to get everything prepped for baby and enjoy my last trimester IN PEACE ! It’s sad when I think “how’d I end up here?!”
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He’s a danger to you, then he’ll def be a danger to that baby. Cut ties immediately do not put him on the birth certificate, go into the hospital as a no name patient so he doesn’t know when you have your child & raise & love your baby boy the best you can. He doesn’t need to be in his life especially while threatening you while you’re pregnant with his child. Also get a restraining order.
I had an IVO that stated BD couldn’t be near me, near the hospital while I was in attendance and I had an alias name for all my appointments and L&D. I suggest you at least ask for an alias/no name and make sure he isn’t an emergency contact.
Definitely walk away for your peace and for your children! They don't need to see or hear their mom being disrespected by their father!