Cheating partner… help Need supporting words

I haven’t slept for days since finding out and its affecting my parenting i just dont know what to do. I am so embarrassed to tell anyone thats why i have come here for help

Oh honey if you ever need to talk shoot me over a message, you don’t deserve this at all, I’ve been struggling with my partner recently and honestly as scary as it was doing it by myself, as a mom we just do and it will make you see what you are capable of❤️

You have nothing to be embarrassed of!! Hold your head high, he’s messed up he should be ashamed! You deserve better and your forever person is out there somewhere when you’re ready to try dating again. As for being a single mom, you’ll do it us moms always do. Won’t be easy at first but you’ll find your rhythm and routine. Go be happy with your baby!

The disrespect of him to use them while you're in the most vulnerable state of your life!!!! Putting you at risk and if it was during pregnancy putting your child at risk too! And horrible as you don't want to explain to others when they inevitably ask why you split. Know that his actions are not a reflection of you or anything you did or didn't do. His actions are a reflection of him being a piece of shit man. Does he know that you know?

Thank you all for your responses. I am trying to muster up the strength to get through this, i feel soo betrayed. My baby doesn’t deserve this neither do i. He knows that i know but has only apologised but talking to me in a degrading way like i did something wrong. I am a smart girl but I feel soo betrayed insecure, unworthy. You name it. I never imagined this to be my life. I hope i can get through this but my heart is completely shattered and i dont want my baby to be affected because of how low i feel

As someone who found their ex cheated at 8 weeks pregnant you will get through it I promise you. You’re worth so much more 🩷 I’ve being doing 90% of the parenting since she was born x

Can't believe he isn't grovelling and is instead talking to you bad when he's the one who's played you and your family for someone who wouldn't even look at him if he wasn't paying them. Gross. You're worth so much more, hope the 5 minutes of meaningless sex was worth his family! It's ok to be sad, your baby is gonna be just fine. You need to think about your exit plan. You've got this xx