I think that had I of had my second born first, that I'd have been more willing to have another child. I had the type of birth that I wanted & the entire experience was better. However, my last pregnancy was worse than my first full term pregnancy. I don't think that my body would be able to cope going through it again. I do feel a bit of sadness, that I'll not have anymore babies but, I'm also relieved.
I have. I’m two weeks post partum, and I miss my bump.
When I gave birth to my second, I was so relieved to be done. It was a difficult pregnancy, a fantastic labor and delivery, and while a small part of me will sometimes wonder "what if?" about a third, my spouse got a vasectomy and feeling like our family is complete is very liberating in a way