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Not only is that disrespectful to you but pretty creepy as well. That poor woman was just shopping and minding her own business. I don’t like that behavior 🚩 Sorry girl, you did the right thing though!
Calling it cheating might be a grey area, I know I certainly wouldn't be happy about it. I think the bigger issue is the fact he's taken several pictures of a stranger without their consent. Personally I think that shows what kind of person he is, and that's weird, disrespectful and potentially worse depending on why he took them in the first place. I think you absolutely did the right thing by breaking up with him!
You definitely made the right decision. How creepy that he followed her around the store to take 5 separate pics of her bum 🤮 It’s giving I’m a predator and potential rapist vibes. As per usual with sexual violence, they always start out with low level crimes such as what your ex did. Then they tend to get off on getting caught, up-skirting, touching women inappropriately on packed public transport, exposing themselves in public, drugging women’s drinks and raping them etc. There is always a pattern of escalation. Also not to mention you were with him for 8 years. After 8 fucking years this cretin had such little respect for you he thought this kind of behaviour was acceptable? Taking sneaky pics of a stranger to wank to later? Gross 🤢
I’d have probs told the police as well, he’s lucky you only dumped him x
I think what he has done is wrong on SO many levels that debating whether it’s classed as cheating or not would be irrelevant to me at this point.. 🚩 🚩 You definitely did the right thing. I guarantee this is not the first time he’s done this or similar…
Wtf that is so weird!!!! Is he mentally ok??
💯good for you for leaving his weird ass!
That is so gross wtf you really saved yourself more time being wasted, good for you catching that and acting on it
That’s beyond creepy wow You’ve DEFFO made the right decision. I’d genuinely report that
Wow 😳 super creepy. “Pervert” is the first word that came to my mind reading this. I wouldn’t be able to look at him the same, not ok at all!!
Agreed with women above! Creepy. BEYOND creepy. And scary to be completely honest. As said above, there’s always a pattern of escalation. And I would DEFINITELY make a police report as you share a little girl together. I would be doing ANY, and EVERYTHING, I mean E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G. POSSIBLE to prevent him from E.V.E.R!!!!! being alone with your little girl. This scares me SO! MUCH! for your little girl. (My dad worked at the prosecutor’s office for 30+ years, and taught a course on Domestic Violence. I have a degree in Criminal Justice and Psychology. DO. NOT. EVER. LET. HIM. BE. ALONE. WITH. THAT. LITTLE. GIRL. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this, but one MILLION percent right choice to leave mama. My ♥️ goes out to you and baby girl.
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It’s very disturbing and disrespectful. It doesn’t have to get to physical cheating for you to leave, that’s last resort. When you ignore all these little things, it’s only a matter of time before it becomes physical. Neither of which you deserve. I like to think of it as “if this guy would not be good enough for my daughter, why should he be enough for me?”