Community Posts, Tips & Support on Postpartum Care

I'm hurt by my ex, friends, and a family member. How do you even begin to heal.

So we always see stories about babies having separation anxiety, but what about us Mums? My baby is 12 weeks old, and I just can't bear the thought of being away from her. My Dad and my Granny are always saying, "we can have her for a night if you want some time." My Dad even says he'll even have her through the d...

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I wanted to post this to give other struggling mommas hope. I have Irish twins (10 months and 4 days apart) and oh my goodness was it hard! I felt suffocated and useless. When one would cry the other would join in and when 1 isn’t crying the other is. It was so much I couldn’t help but break down and cry many times....

Will your relationship with your partner ever go back to “normal”? He says im pushing him away and im worried hes the type to stay away once pushed. I dont try to but i struggle mentally and physically, im 3 months PP and a FTM. im slowly feeling better about myself but now he and i fight constantly about the SMALLE...

Is Zoloft safe to take during pregnancy? This will be my first baby and I have been struggling mentally during this pregnancy. I really need this medication, but I’m so scared of harming my baby or my baby having potential issues later when she’s born😢can I please get some advice or other experiences with this…

My daughter’s dad and I have had some fallings out over the past year. It’s been at its worst since baba has been here. He claims it’s stress related and will change his ways, but this is the 3rd time this has been said now. When is enough truly enough.

So lately I just haven’t been feeling myself even when I actually put a little effort into getting myself ready I just haven’t been feeling pretty. On Easter my husband and I went to Home Depot after church and I told him I would meet him inside and I went to go look at the plants outside. When I walked in I felt li...

I dropped my daughter off at the gym day care this morning, we’ve been doing so well she gets a little nervous but doesn’t cry anymore. But today about 15 mins into my workout they called saying that my daughter had been crying for over 10 minutes and kept saying “mommy” and they tried everything to get her to calm ...

Has anybody else been through anything similar? My LO suddenly crying hysterically when being put down in cot?

Hi, I’m really struggling with HG, can’t keep any food down, on medication and unable to function at all. Has anyone found anything that helps? My toddler has also told me I’m “annoying” as I can’t play with him as much 😢 any advice welcome

I have gone back and forth about posting on here, and I have finally decided to. I have struggled with depression most of my life. I have had lots of ups and downs with my mental health while being pregnant. I am on Prozac. I have been struggling lately and having a hard time finding hope. For more background, I h...

this will be #2 and not nearly as devastating as the first time but very quickly becoming discouraged Did my body just decide that's it? we're done having kids? even tho I'm actively trying my body is saying no and idk how do I argue w my body? should I just give up? feeling a little lost and sad but I'm sure I'...

I'm 35 weeks, and Holy Moly, the back ache is unreal! I never experienced this with my girls, but I am in literal agony anytime I am not led down! How are you all coping? Is this a sign that things are moving along? I know it's early, but my other two came early and very quickly, so we are on high alert 🙈

Have any of yall had post partum? My husband said im not the same any more & im getting worse. I can tell I have it but it doesn’t seem that bad . What can I do to help myself with out a therapist.

Someone please save my sanity. My baby just whinges, cries and is grumpy all day. Its been 4 weeks of this now and I can’t cope. I don’t know whats wrong or what to do anymore. Is this normal or should i be taking her to see someone?

Please tell me I am not alone with struggling with 3year old behaviour. It is actually making me feel like a really bad mum as I end up shouting, and we both start crying I will say that we are have lost her nan in the last few weeks and we've tried to explain that, I think she realises she's missing and trying to...

I’m struggling so much at the moment with anxiety. Every waking moment is spent worrying about something to do with my little boy. I either worry about an illness, or that he’s drinking enough or weeing enough and I feel like it’s affecting my bond with him because I’m in a constant state of anxiousness. Even feedin...

Snapped at my mum when the baby was crying because she offered “want me to hold her?” Made me feel inadequate or like I was failing to calm my own baby, when she was really just trying to help. Has this happened to anyone?

Mums with your first child.. what are you going to do when the time comes? So I’m currently pregnant with my second and my 1st is 4 yo, it’s just me and hubby, no village. Hubby’s family is overseas. This bub is due 5th of July but we’re getting a planned c-section. I’m an only child and my mum is in her 70s ...