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Medically-reviewed expert guides, tips, real-life stories, and articles on Postpartum Care
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Tassia O'Callaghan
Katie Mill
Dr. Frankie Harrison
Keshia Sophia Roelofs
Deborah Vieyra
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Second reflux CMPA baby , with my first it was intense . This time round it's gone up a notch . I physically do not get a minute each and every day is the same . He is in my arms all day every day with tolerating floor time with me for 5 mins every few hours . The crying , fussing and sensitivity it's another level . Today is the day I have had to reach out to the drs for support to get me through this extremely difficult time. Trying to care for my eldest , run a home and look after and soothe my baby is taking me over the edge . I have never felt so emotional in my life .to all the velcro mums I see you and your doing an amazing job 🫶🏼
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Last week he told me that his girlfriend was sick and throwing up. And then he told me again today that she felt sick again and that she thinks it is a stomach bug. I asked him if she was pregnant and he says "No she got her tubes tied." I told him "it is still possible to get pregnant after that but it is rare. And if she is then it is probably an ectopic pregnancy." She has a history of being on drugs but he says she stopped years ago and she still smokes weed even though she stopped the other studf. And they have cheated on each other before but I don't know how far they went when they cheated. I asked him if she has any STDs and he said no. I said "well people who do heavy drugs have a higher chance of having an std and stds can weaken the immune system." I told him "If its not an std then maybe it is a hang over." If she keeps getting sick a lot then I think it is more than just a stomach bug. Either she is back on drugs and having hang overs or she has an STD or some other kind of illness. He himself has also been sick several times during their relationship but he keeps claiming that it is from stress. Also, her symptoms sound worse than his. They also fight a lot. Their relationship is very toxic.
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I have a two months old baby who love to be so close to me And feels like being betrayed when lay down
I was hoping for some help. Could any of you describe what Braxton Hicks feels like? Everything you read online is either vague or contradictory.
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Any advice on how to stop hair loss after childbirth?
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I have 2 under 2 (23mo and 5mo) and I thought it would get better by now but I feel like it infact got worse. My baby slept really well (fully breastfed) until 3 1/2m and then teh regression hit and were still in it. I’m beyond exhausted, moody, snappy, so so much anger, frustration and I feel like a horrible mum. I can never make both of them happy and I feel like I struggle to really play with my baby because I’m constantly with my toddler. I carry and hold my baby all the time but still struggle and now her sleep is insanely horrible. I have no help or family around I’m really struggling, dreading every night and it feels like a vicious cycle. I don’t want my kids to have an angry mum
How do you know you’re done? Do you ever truly feel done? My son just turned 1. I have a 1 and a 2 year old, but I have a desire to have another. I feel like something is wrong with me. My husband is dead set on not having more anyways, so I’m not sure what to do.
I just need to vent. I have dealt with betrayal trauma/cptsd and for some reason the past few days everything is triggering. I dont want to bring to much up to my husband because tomorrow is his birthday and Saturday is his nephews funeral. Im tired of anxiety and paranoia hitting i feel like i just need to take a deep breath and cant get it out.
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I dont get on with my bil at all! We are civil to each other but when we see each other now but when I had my first baby he was horrible to me and even said he had no respect for me as a mother (because I said no kissing my newborn)This was a few years back!My partner is close to his brother and ive got a feeling he will definitely want him to be godparent to our next baby but im just feeling bit off about it.I rarley see my bil and when we do its just very basic chat! Im still upset how he treated me but im willing to put it behind me..I guess I just wish he would say sorry
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I’m 35-3days and I’m really done. Everything is healthy with baby apart from myself. I have been super poorly recently that I ended in triage and now need an iron transfusion, I’m not sleeping due to pain, hips, acid reflux, constantly peeing whatever and I’m so fed up of people saying “that’s pregnancy for you” like a brush it off kind of thing. I’m mentally struggling as well as physically and I have not had the best pregnancy. I want her out NOW, I’m even having thoughts of regret and wishing I never got pregnant to begin with (this was a planned pregnancy), I’m so afraid. My midwife already knows my mental health isn’t the greatest at the moment and has referred me to a mental health team which specialises with pregnant mums to be but they said they needed more information about me and my midwife reckons they’ll decline my care and tell me to go back to my GP (not great, I don’t want to go on medication and that’s exactly all they will give me other than advice to speak to Samaritans lol).I feel I sound ungrateful but I just don’t want to do this anymore, I don’t even want to be here, I’d never act on it but Christ how do people enjoy this?? I applaud you.
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