Feeling numb/checking out

What would yall do if your heart checked out of your relationship but your husband or bf or whoever your dealing with is trying to do everything in they power to keep you but your upset of the fact you and your man live in separate homes we both live with family your man works 4am to 6pm 7 days a week but the first off day he wants to go to his friends birthday party instead of spending it with you and the time he gives you yall on a time frame cause his job so yall talk on his breaks and when he get off yall talk for a 1hr then he goes to sleep on you but in the mist of yall arguing he hangs up on you to with his daughter a happy birthday but you ignored his calls and text and don't want to talk to him for the rest of the day you know he's at his friend party but going to call you when he leaves would you pick up or give him space to think about his actions would yall be mad if he hangs up on you in a argument and would you be mad if he went to his friend birthday