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Me and my baby daddy weren’t/ aren’t together prior to conceiving. He made it very clear in the beginning that he wanted this baby. I am currently 19 weeks and I have gone weeks without hearing from him to check on me and his child. I’m planning a gender reveal and he wants to be there and I’m not sure how I feel. What should I do ?!? Because I feel like if you’re not for me while carrying the child should you even be apart of everything?
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I agree with Leigh. My child’s father has been in a coma and now is awake but he has really bad memory loss. I thought he wasn’t going to make it. My village (my family and friends) have been here and had my back for all of it. His mother made it clear that since she was losing her baby and I was gaining one she wanted no parts. My baby was a twin and the twin passes early on. I told his mother and she just assumed the whole pregnancy was lost and unfortunately I’m ok with that. I haven’t seen him since June. Now he’s awake she has been playing gate keeper and has even moved him to a whole different state. She keeps me updated every few weeks. But I’ve too had to prepare myself to do this alone. Good luck. You got this.
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Invite him as a guest. Don’t hold your breath expecting him to be there. And if he shows up he will be there as a guest. He has now until you give birth to show he wants to be a father. But in the meantime gather your village and get your ducks in a row to prepare for the possibility of doing it without him.