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I feel so bad, but we don’t have the money to throw my daughter her first birthday party. We are going to do a little thing at my families home. Is anyone else not doing a party for the 1st birthday?
I also have separated parents who don’t get on, so wanted to avoid a party situation if possible (selfishly).
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Learn more about our guidelines.We are having a garden picnic at home 🏡 🩷 Birthday cake and a few family members. I'm really looking forward to it - and you and your girl will have a great time marking the day, no matter what that looks like.
My eldest daughter has just had her first ever big party in a hall, and that was for her 13th birthday. Up until then she had parties at home! X
We’re doing afternoon tea for a few close family members, definitely not a party. It’s a lot to do when they won’t even remember it, she’ll love whatever you do as she’ll be with you 🩷 x
@Alison same I have such a big garden so don’t see the point in getting hall personal and most halls have time limit. I want us to have a fun so a few family members and friends , cutting a cake
Ye I'm not doing a party because we are off to edinburgh because his dads doing a marathon the day after but even if we were at home i dont think id have a party...they are 1 and won't remember...he shares his birthday with his nana so think we will just go for a meal and to Edinburgh zoo which is a planned family thing anyway but say its for his birthday. Other than that couple of presents pack of balloons for when he wakes up and done i really wouldnt worry your time and love is much more valuble than any party 🤷♀️ xx
Don’t feel bad at all. We did a little party for my son when he was one with my uncle, aunty, our mum’s and his godparents and that was it. It was so nice as everyone got a cuddle and a play and it wasn’t too overwhelming for him.
We are doing a joint 3rd and 1st in June but that is mainly for my son and then inviting a few friends for our daughter. There is 19 days difference between their birthdays.
I might do something small with immediate family. The little one won’t remember it but id still like to celebrate and just remember the day. It doesn’t have to be big to be memorable x
Also doing a bbq (hopefully) party in the garden with close family and friends. We don’t know many children/babies so don’t see the point in hiring a hall!
We're going to the zoo 😊 The family will see her over the weekend but I'm not having everyone in my house at one go (a lot of different personalities in a small space) 🤣 x
Thank you all! Really appreciate all your comments. We are also going to do a little thing with my immediate family at my mums! Just was seeing so many things on social media of big parties, but we also don’t have loads of friends with Babies etc so don’t feel the need in hiring a hall also!
Thank you all again made me feel a lot better! Xx
We are having our parents over for a BBQ. Nothing fancy, no fancy cake (just one from Sainsbury's) and very low key. We're more doing it because we know his grandparents will want to see him and it saves us having to drop in and see them separately. X
Were just doing something at home. Family and close friends.
My son will be 4 this year and that's all he's ever had xx