Second IVF child

I am doing IVF again after having had a child via IVF. I am 38 and after one cycle we have 1 genetically tested healthy embryo. Just to say I know this comes from a very privileged place of already having a child and we are beyond grateful for them. This makes trying for #2 less stressful but I’m also a realistic that it may not work out with #2. I feel very torn if it doesn’t work out, would I do another cycle or just be happy with what I have. The emotional and physical impact has been fine. We could (just) about afford another cycle but I know I’m getting older and it’s also a huge amount of money for something that might one give me a slim chance again. Have others been in the same boat for #2 and how did you reconcile these emotions?

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We have one embryo remaining and will certainly do more rounds if needed. If we don’t get baby number 2 I’m at peace with that as long as we’ve given it all we can x

I say give it another go, money will come back eventually but the chance of another child may not. At least you’ll be at peace knowing you gave it your all instead of regretting not trying! Sending good luck your way ✨

I started IVF one month shy of my 40th birthday. We knew we wanted more than one child, so we did 4 back to back IVF rounds. I'm glad we did it, we have an 8 month old daughter and some embryos on ice. Ready for a transfer as soon as my obgyn approves. If doing another round is a possibility, I say do it.

Thanks everyone for your replies! It’s so interesting to hear and I think you’re right, you need to keep going if you feel deep down you have the energy (and money!) to do so

I was 38 and transferred for my 2nd ivf baby and it stuck! It can happen! Your body knows what to do now. You got this!

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