Why he ignored me

So last week I had a nightmare my husband was cheating at me so I tell him you better not be cheating at me n he say why ? I am not sure if that is what I wanted to hear but then he say you always have that kind of dreams coul be because you watch something related to before going to sleep bu I don’t remember any of that any ways after that conversation he was so nice n attractive makes me think something is happening but now we are not talking much because he said he is not happy but life is like that n sometimes you just have to get going I am not feeling ok with him not been happy I am not happy as well his actitudes are very weird
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Super confused about what you just explained. He acted nice and then said he was not happy so you’re not talking much… can you explain that better? Also, don’t make it about your feelings when your partner is talking about his.

@Nai I don’t really understand anything she’s saying either

Just because you have a dream doesn’t means he’s doing anything If y’all aren’t happy then try and figure out how to be happy or don’t be together but it seems like you kept poking at him which made him not happy If you really think he’s cheating then why be with him

Dreams don't mean anything, they're just a reflection of your subconscious thoughts and fears. You might just be insecure from the sounds of it. I'd never ever tell my husband "you better not be cheating" from a dream, that's incredibly immature. Might be a factor in his unhappiness.

@Tiffany that was he’s answer !! but is not that I am constantly telling him that he is cheating and he is not happy for many things for example we have 2 dogs he doesn’t like dogs but he let me have them because my daughter n I wanted them he is not happy because I have a daughter that is not his and she has autism n it is so hard sometimes he is not happy because we don’t have sex we have a 1 year old who gets up so many times at night and I am tired plus we move in to a house that even if you fart in the bathroom you can hear it at the living room so sex is very uncomfortable so many things I ask him why stay with me then he said nobody is forcing me life is lake that and you have to take it but I am not ok with that because is not fair for him he probably doesn’t want to divorce because our baby I am his 3 marriages he has babies with one of his ex and is so hard to see them because they are far away

Sorry everyone for my writing last night I was so tired but sad n frustrated he doesn’t talk to me only for the necessary things we are having our baby boy birthday party today n I am just sad that things are like this n we have to fake it

Yeah that sounds hard. My husband re-homed his dog when we got pregnant, she made me soooo miserable. I'm sorry you're going through this

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