Anger

Is it normal at this age for them to get seriously angry. To the point where they’re kicking off for hours at a time and nothing will calm them? I’ve tried offering her food/drink, offering a cuddle, trying to understand why she’s angry but she doesn’t even know herself. She will scream and hit and ask for something but when I give it her she screams no and pushes it away. Then when I take it away she screams and asks for it. Then asks for something else and does the same
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We are experiencing this to some degree but not for hours, maybe for 20-30 mins.

How do you get your LO to eventually calm down? She literally shaking after she eventually calms and then one tiny thing sets her back off again

She was hyperventilating/coughing she was so worked up. In this case I went up and took over from my partner as I think her original reason for the tantrum (not getting yoghurt) had moved on to being with him and not me. She calmed down a bit when I cuddled her then I did some deep breaths near her face which she seems to like, then we read a book. But she was a bit shaky all evening and at some point requested a dummy (which she never took as a baby and has probably only used 5 time in her life 🤷‍♀️) I did something similar last time, waited for her to get the worst of it out then sat down with her and did breathing/cuddles then books.

My boy does this, I have resorted to putting his fav tv programme on and walking away to enable him to calm down and that has worked ok, outside bit of a challenge so I’ve taken him away from the situation rather than trying to engage as I seem to make him worse by cuddling or talking to him

@Liz Would you also do this if it was midnight? My LG was doing this through the night and I was tempted to put the TV on to calm her but I thought it might have been a bad idea with it being the middle of the night xx

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