Just looking for advice really

So my BD is the worst ever, treated me like crap during our 2yr relationship, cheated, lied, used my friends and family. I've recently just got I a relationship(decided to be his gf last night) my new partner is the sweetest guy and he had been waiting til I was ready to be in a relationship with him and I finally accepted it last night, just wondering how long did all you mama's wait to tell your BD about ur new partner??? Any advice on how or when to tell him

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I never told them I just let them find out whenever they find out. I don’t have to let them know anything outside of their child’s wellbeing

@Denyse thank you. My BD thinks he's entitled to know my life story after telling him numerous times that he doesn't get to know what I do I'm not with him and he don't get to control my life anymore

I never told mine, he found out when he saw my wallpaper 🤷🏾‍♀️ that was almost 3 years ago and he still feels some type of way about him to this very day

this never happened to me but just curious and not trying to offend anybody, why would you not tell him about your new partner? to me it would interfere with my child since I’d have to consider the type of person and influence i’d be letting around my child

@Talia because normally when I start dating someone they aren’t around my children for a while. By the time my relationship got serious enough for them to be around my children my baby daddies had already found out I was dating someone new. It’s not worth the extra stress and drama that comes with me dating someone new.

Don’t tell him.. they will always feel entitled. Don’t give him that control! I made a mistake but it’s because I wanted to see him and ugh now I can’t and ugh I’m struggling.. just if you have your own control of what you do.. you can drive and even better have your own place then you are good but if you don’t at least have your own home it’s harder.

@Talia my son's father is a very controlling person and still thinks I will go back to him which will never happen, and he will end up manipulating everything. He thinks I'm just gonna go back to him and pretend to be this happy family that he wants but I just don't love him anymore and have no trust for him. I do want to tell him I really do but I just don't know how to go about it

@Lis | mommy of 3 I live with my mum which is good for me and my son, but I'm in the process of finding my own place so that my son has his own area to be himself. I'm gonna wait a while to tell him or just let him find out

That’s great! I’m glad you in a healthy, safe place. Also working in your things♥️ the best

@Lis | mommy of 3 thank you 🤗 I'm just incredibly happy in my new relationship just don't want my BD to ruin it

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