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Risks

What’s the risk of miscarriage after 7 weeks and seeing heartbeat twice? 🥰

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Sorry for the picture but I want to understand if this is a miscarriage

I am having lots of pain never got it before and then i felt something came down and I got to restroom and found shape of a fetus… sorry for the picture

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TW miscarriage

I unfortunately found out my baby doesn't have a heartbeat and stopped growing after 8 weeks. This wasn't a total shock as I had some blood in my discharge on and off since Saturday. I was meant to be 12 weeks yesterday and they believe after my 8 week scan (I'm diabetic so had a reassurance scan at 8 weeks) they th...

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Scared to try again

So I’ve just finished my first period after a miscarriage 6 weeks ago.. I bled for 4 whole weeks stopped for a week and now just had the worst period.. I’ve not had sex with my husband for nearly 12 weeks as we found out we had a no heartbeat at 10 weeks. I’ve just not been ready.. I’m now feeling so much better an...

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How long does HCG stay?

I had a miscarriage in February (D&C) 11/12 weeks ago. Today I randomly did a test as we aren’t trying as it was very traumatic. I see a faint line. Could this be left over HCG? Or am I pregnant again!? I did one yesterday and one today and it’s not getting any darker so convinced myself it’s a chemical already 😭…

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Ectopic surgery last week

I had Right tube removal surgery last week due to ectopic pregnancy, the hospital told me to take a pregnancy test in 3 weeks - I’ve taken one today and it’s negative , I’m grateful in a weird way as hoping my cycle starts to go back to normal My question is , how did your cycles vary after ectopic? I had an exactl...

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Struggling

Currently going through my second miscarriage in the space of a year. This one happened on the due date of our last angel baby, so it’s hitting a bit harder. Can anyone suggest any support I can get? I have tried with my local gp but not really getting much from them Thanks🤍

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Miscarriage advice

I found out today that my pregancy is no longer viable and I will be passing my pregancy at home over the weekend. Any advice would be needed to handle this. Thank you.

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Periods after miscarriage

Did anyone else’s periods start going off track after a miscarriage? I miscarried at the end of Feb, had my first period in April and I am now 4 days late but showing negative on tests. My periods are usually bang on the date so I’m just wondering if it’s the miscarriage that’s messing up my cycles?

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Terrified

Hi all I’m 8+5. Had a scan at 7 +2 and all was fine. I know I should feel chill but I’m so panicked. I have a high stress job, health concerns and I don’t feel pregnant. I’m terrified I’ve had a missed miscarriage but nothing to base this infiltrating thought on. Would I know if something had happened? Any advi...

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Am I seeing things or not

So has miscarriage 19th October 2023 then another one on 19th Feb that was surgery Not had period since I had positive test on the 11th April but started. Bleed light for 4 days and got told I was miscarriage again but not period since don’t a test yesterday it was digital and said NOT PREGNANT BUT DONE THIS ONE AN...

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*TW* miscarriage - What do I do if I have a miscarriage?

Hey ladies I’m a massive worrier, especially in early pregnancy What do I do if I happen to have a miscarriage? I want to make sure I’m prepared for absolutely everything And also: How do I know that it is definitely a miscarriage? Or do I not know until the doctors tell me?

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My friend keeps miscarrying, and I’m pregnant

💔 Just found out my friend has miscarried again, and I’m feeling so heart broken for her, but I have no idea what the right approach is towards her. I am 20 weeks pregnant myself and just feel like I am rubbing my bump in her face. She has kept this last pregnancy quiet, obviously through worry/fear, and now the…

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Pregnant after miscarriage

Hello Ladies, I'm new to the group. I'm currently five weeks pregnant and have been hoping for this pregnancy for two years. I'm praying for a sticky baby. I've had six losses in the span of two years. I am supposed to have an HCG test tomorrow to verify it. My due date is supposed to be Jan 8th, but I was told I mi...

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Miscarriage

I just went through a miscarriage over the weekend. I didn't go to the hospital because I've been through all this before and I don't have insurance. It's my 4th one. I know I'm lucky to even have my baby girl. I feel guilty because even though I would've loved this baby just as I love my daughter, I'm glad I didn't...

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Miscarriage

I had my miscarriage sadly but started bleeding straight after I had my scan it started automatically how long will I bleed for as it’s dark and not hurting nomore also when will I get my period even tho it only last 3/4 days and when could I start trying again ?

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Pregnancy after miscarriage

So, I posted on here a month ago about being pregnant again. It ended in miscarriage before the 6-week mark. I went in for my obgyn to do some blood work on me. Well, I'm healthy in every respect, but my chromosomal breakdown came back showing I was a carrier in my chromosomes for infertility and other chromosomal a...

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To much TMI

Hello So I’ve had 3 miscarriage in 7 months not had period since but I’ve just been toilet and had this but I tested Thursday and it was negative

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When to try again🤞🤞

So we had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks, we had the medicine to help things move on, I was quiet poorly after it but I’m finally on the mend, the bleeding has stopped and I’ve just finished my antibiotics and had the negative pregnancy test too. My question is do you think it’s okay to start trying again? We’re bo...

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Bleeding after miscarriage

I had a missed miscarriage just over a week ago (was given medication to induce) I am still bleeding, which I know can be normal. But the blood is black and doesn’t smell very nice. I’m still using maternity pads as feel that normal period pads aren’t “secure” enough and I feel like the “scent” in a normal period ...

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