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Bout to go bald

So I attended a baby shower about two weeks ago, for me to attend this shower, I had to stay the night at my mil house due to us not having a vehicle (it’s in the shop) but anyway my younger sister in law had to stay here with my husband and the kids due to my older sister in law not wanting kids at her big day 🙄…

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I’m such a bitch when I’m due on my period!!!

Can anyone relate. I become so angry and hateful and tearful when I’m due on like it’s so bad, it feels like my real emotions that I feel when I’m not due on but it’s like x100. When I’m due on I feel like I’m too soft when I’m not due on and these are my true emotions which I hide 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’ve been like this since a…

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Circumcision

My baby’s circumcision is tomorrow. What was your experience with it (before, during and after)? Were you present?

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One and done? Anyone else?

Anyone else just having one child and that’s it? My LO is now 3 and I feel like I’m only now starting to feel a tiny bit like myself. I just feel like to have another child will mentally put me back in the trenches. My first pregnancy I had severe anxiety and post partum I was not looking after myself health wise ...

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I feel broken

I stuck with my ex for three almost four years I allow this man to tear me down every chance he got until he broke me down so small its like I don't exist

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Sex life

Anyone else’s sex life massively improved since having a baby? I’m 4 months pp and we’re having sex like when we first got together! Feeling so connected

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Anyone still struggling with postpartum Depression?

Just wanting to feel a little less alone in this. (Also I really don't want to take medicine.)

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Still struggling after 2 years

My daughter was born unexpectedly at 23 weeks, 2 years ago. She is honestly doing amazing, the doctors say she is a miracle and we should just treat her as a “normal” girl, since she has no “issues” from being born so early. It is incredible, and I can’t be more thankful. But why am I still struggling? She is my fir...

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Silicone scar patches

At what point postpartum did you use silicone scar patches on your incision & did they work?

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PP Hair loss

Mamas what are we doing about this PP hair loss. It seems to have happened over night

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My spouse of 9 years said he wants a divorce. We are 38 weeks with our second baby. Contractions come timely for hours and then just stop. My first was born at 37 weeks. I can’t get into a head space to let this baby be born.

I feel afraid and stressed. How do I come to enough peace inside to let her out, with so much uncertainty? Now I’ve got a new fear of having to be induced. And I’m uncomfortable with the idea of being in such a vulnerable position with him as my support.

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Am I being unreasonable? Advice on what to do please

My MIL lives close and she wants to come over weekly for a few hours to see my daughter and her son and I - which isn’t a problem. It’s just my gut always flips when she’s around, she doesn’t feel authentic to me and her energy is off. Shes always saying the right thing but with mean undertones. It’s so hard to ex...

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husbands stitch

I’m so nervous that I got the husbands stitch without Them telling me, we tried for the first time 11week pp and it hurt so bad he couldn’t even get it in even when we went slowly it was not Pleasurable at all. The only way I could get it in comfortably was on top even then i was still very sensitive and it hurt a b...

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Emotional!!

Anyone else experiencing extremely emotional! 35 weeks and I am crying over the littlest thing! I look at my 2.5 yr old and cry, watch something and cry, the list goes on! 😅🥲

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.... postpartum hair loss.... ayudarme!

So this is the second time ive loss so much hair during wash day. Someone please tell me it gets better....im not doing a big chop because i love my hair....

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Separation anxiety

Is anybody elses 2 year old currently going through a period of separation anxiety?

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Therapist bringing baby?

Hello! I’m a therapist and would love to poll other moms: I’ve been thinking about starting a support group for new moms in which everyone brings their baby, part of the theme would be exploring who we are with the baby, not separate from the baby. I would bring mine to. My question is: how would you feel in such a ...

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10 months pp recovery

Hello mammas, I am 10 months pp but still experiencing some pain if I work or walk more than usual near my incision, anyone experiencing the same or is it normal after the c section. How to get normal again please pour some suggestions

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Postnatal depression!

I’m in the thick of postnatal depression right now and I just want to hear people’s person experiences with it and hopefully hear how and when things got better for people?

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Postpartum

I had my little boy just over two weeks ago, best thing ever. Is it normal to feel really shitty in myself and when I look in the mirror I just feel really unattractive, self conscious, very sensitive and just not like what I see?🫣

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