Family drama

So my grandmother and her daughters ( mother and aunt) are trying to get me to convince my husband to quit his job so we can move in with them ( which didn’t go well the first time) and we had 1 kid then we are on our second. But back to the point. My grandma just had surgery on her eyes ( still can see) and now they are trying to use that to guilt trip us. I have told them countless of times I would never live in that house again but something ain’t clicking. Now you may be say “ well you shouldn’t be taking it out on your grandmother” and believe me I’m not. At least not completely. But I have been “taking care” of my grandmother since as long as I can let myself to remember. I be miserable around them. But anyways back to the point. And the point is why can’t 3 grown adults because they have an older brother, just doesn’t make sense to me. Mind you they also have a father who is on OXGEN and they don’t even bring him up half the time. They only do that when they get real desperate 🤦🏽‍♀️.

I’m 37 weeks pregnant, I sadly still live with my parents. I’m a single mother just trying to do what’s best. My parents are allowing my other sibling and her bf to stay,(no issue with them) but there dogs… omg their dogs😡 I love animals but the amount of dog fur that’s inside out kitchen is awful I cannot COOK without finding dog fur, my toddler can’t walk in the living room and play with HIS TOYS IN HIS PLAY AREA bc they will knock him over. I have been tripped by them 4 times, fallen twice. Lucky never on my belly. I’ll go to the bathroom just to step in PUDDLES of toilet water/ the seat will be covered in water. They will take my sons snacks out of his hands, eat food off the counter as I’m cooking… I can’t even look over at my son to make sure he’s okay without them snatching the food. But the Icing on the cake tn has it all, I leave my room door open bc we have a ac unit our landlord has not fixed our air. I randomly smell a awful stench of shit, not my sons diaper so I look over one of the dogs has shit just when you walk into my room on my carpet. I’m beyond pissed. I have told my sibling and it’s been 15 mins… it’s still there! I do not have the stomach to pick it up. I’m just exhausted and can’t even sleep as it is and now I have to smell this… it’s to much I’m so ready to start working again to be able to afford and care for my own.

My family has not bought anything for my child, asked about my child and how I’m doing, when I have ultrasounds and ask if they’d like to see, they say no. I’ve come to terms with the fact that my family will not be in the picture like I always dreamed of and it hurts. They will walk past me and ignore me and I just want someone to go to with my pregnancy questions and whatnot.. I just want to share my happy little moments and any time I bring up my child or the pregnancy, they ignore it and move on to the next subject. I’m so worried my son won’t have anyone…