No Shame Mamas

I could use suggestion on what I can get because vapes always trigger migraines. I think it’s the distillate mix or something in the cartridge. Idk they just make me feel off physically. 🤢 But with flower, odor management is a factor and not ideal. Should I just stick with flower & managing odor or are there other products suggestions?

Alright so I got an offer at a new job and I smoke weed every night only a hit or two . Do you think if I test in 5 days it’ll be out my system ?

Can i have some advice/opinions on my “co parenting” position please. I have two toddlers who only see their father and the grandparents on that side every other weekend. Saturday 10am until Sunday 11am/12pm I dont feel like this is good enough, especially from the grandparents(their dad lives there). So my situation is my childrens father sexually assaulted me so I have a non molestation order meaning no contact between me and him, contact is made between myself and his parents but they dont ever ever ever ask about the children until the Friday before they come to pick them up. Sometimes I dont hear anything until a few hours before they want to pick them up.

I get with myself not having the contact with him it can be a lot for the grandparents to take on that responsibility but I feel like only wanting to see your children/grandchildren twice a month is awful! I give them every opportunity to see the children and have made it 100% clear to them I wont stop any of them having contact with my children but it just seems as though they do not care

So me and my children’s father live together and are together, but we’re not married so we included his income on the paperwork and therefore we don’t qualify for anything no help with medical insurance, no food stamps, no wic, no nothing but obviously we can use it because it’s really hard to make ends meet on one income for 5 people- his income was only over limit not by much at all and everyone tells us because we’re not married that we should’ve just lied and said we don’t live together, but instead we decided to be honest and this is what we get- so now I’m trying to figure out how to say what I need to say to be able to get the help because like I said it is necessary for us to have the extra help- does anyone have any experience in this area? No judgement zone please

My daughter's dad isn't paying child support but he gets her every Sunday for 8 hours and 2 weekends a month from Friday 7 pm to Sunday 4 pm. I need extra assistance. I'm already behind on bills and I pay for everything since my daughter lives with me. We've done a DNA test and he knows he's the dad. He wants joint custody and when I asked if he was going to pay child support, he said the courts wouldn't give me child support just because I asked for it. We don't get along and he's extremely nasty towards me. He snapped at me after his mother was extremely disrespectful towards me (she demanded that I get a DNA test on our first meeting) and he's thrown my trauma in my face as a reason why he won't let me meet his mother.

During my daughters first year, he gave me money when I asked. I only asked for $150 every 2 weeks totaling $300 a month. He stopped doing that after her firat birthday. I've asked for money from him and he's told me that he doesn't have it because he's paying his son's tuition for college. His mother is also paying his rent while he pays his son's tuition. I feel toyed with. I'm at the point where I want to hear a judge tell me that he can't financially help me. However, I like my freedom from him. He isn't on her birth certificate and has no rights. I allow him to have time with our child for many reasons. My daughter can bond with her family, I get a well-needed break, and I hoped to have a decent co-parenting relationship with him. I know i sound extremely controlling but dealing with him is hell. Still, I'm drowning and I need help. I don't mind working and grinding for what my daughter needs as well as what I need, however, I didn't make this beautiful baby girl on my own. Any advice? I feel her dad will try any and everything to get out of paying child support like weaponizing my mental health as he's done many times before.