Ok, so I have a 4 year old and she will not let me close her bedroom door at night. I don't have an issue with leaving her door open as there's a baby gate there, but when she really wants to, she can climb it. My husband hates me leaving her door open and keeps telling me to put my foot down and close it, but when I do, she completely loses it and screams whilst kicking and punching the door. I have a feeling its because she's scared but he keeps telling me it's because she knows she can get her own way and makes me feel like a bad mum for not making her keep it closed. I don't know what to do? My husband and I argue so much over it because I'm adamant it's because she's scared as I was like that as a child, but he's adamant it's because I'm lazy and don't want the hassle of her screaming? Does anyone else go through this/have any advice for it?