BAD MAMA

Who here is a single Mum?

Anyone else like to screw with spammers when they make contact?? 😂😂

What is y’all’s favorite thing to do when you actually get a minute to yourself?? I feel like since becoming a full time SAHM I don’t do anything for myself anymore and I definitely need a hobby..😅😩

Before getting pregnant I wasn't much of a drinker but did love to smoke pot. Its not that I've been craving either one. I guess I'm just curious if there are any mamas out there that miss there life before getting pregnant? Smoking all the time didnt really leave me with any healthy relationships or coping mechanisms now that I've stopped doing anything toxic for my body & the baby. I feel like ppl are turned off by me when I'm honest with my life before getting pregnant which is hard on me. Im not a judgemental person.

As a momma I have my faults, I’m manic bipolar and I take my meds every single day.. I know I’ll lose it if I don’t. Some days I can’t bring myself out of bed, some days I cry all day, some days I laugh all day, some days I lose my temper, and most days I feel like I’m not the best mom... that’s why I started this group! I’m not even close to perfect, and I don’t believe anyone is. I also know as a momma you lose yourself once you have those beautiful babies.. everything you know is gone and you have to start all over as this person you never thought you’d be and you lose that young, crazy, funny person you were before babies.. I know it takes time to get in a grove and find your way... but now you have these lovely little lives you’d do anything in your power for.. since having my daughter over a year ago I’ve been soul searching for myself. Finding my GROOVE. Oh and by the way... NOT ONE PERSON HAS THE SAME GROOVE. You may be the momma who takes the break in the bathroom, or the closet.. you may left your kids completely destroy your house and feel defeated as you try to keep up with the mess, you may have a perfectly clean house, you may yell at your babies over small things because you are so exhausted.. you may never find your groove and that IS OKAY!! So dear momma, it is okay. You are doing AMAZING. And just so you know your not alone I’m the bad mama, I left my kids throw cereal on the floor because I’m tired and I have toys in every room in my house an all over the place outside, I lose my temper some days and I know I shouldn’t, my house is not anywhere near perfect. I hide in the closet and the bathroom and I don’t do dishes everyday but that’s OKAY!
IM A MOMMA💗