Baby Daddy Drama

am i the asshole:

I spoke to my baby dad earlier today just to say to him that i am struggling a bit mentally and physically with the baby as she’s not sleeping and i’ve got a lot of things going on. I then asked him if he could come over tonight instead of tomorrow and he said to me so i have to kill myself for you to be happy. what should i do

my fiancée works full time in hospitality so his shifts aren’t consistent, some are late some are early but how does this mean he doesn’t do anything around the house or even help with baby. he’ll only take my son when he’s sleeping and whilst he’s sleeping i tidy the house and as soon as baby wakes he passes him back to me. i’ve tried to tell him how it makes me feel and it just turns into an argument. i don’t even see him anymore as he’s always playing games with his friends. i feel alone in a relationship. i’m so tired

Hi ladies idk who else to vent to but recently I saw a post about women looking up their partners number on Mr number idk if anyone has heard of it and apparently escorts and basically girls who have sex with men use it to comment on the user to see if they’re safe. I looked up my partners number and there was comments about encounters. Sexual at that from a few years ago to most recent 2 days ago except the 2 days ago one only said wastes time. How legit is this app if anyone has encountered it? I looked up many other numbers from my male friends and none have comments except for my partner. This is heartbreaking and I’m sick to my stomach. I did confront him and ask him if he’s doing anything behind my back and of course he lied

Mamas! I could really use your advice and support. ❤️ Maybe some of your not in the same boat as me, maybe you know someone is going through this.

Being separated is definitely hard, and this is all so new to me. I’m trying to figure out how to make co-parenting work in a healthy and peaceful way while also learning how to navigate life on my own.

How did you make co-parenting easier with your ex? What helped you communicate better, set boundaries, and make things less stressful for both you and your child?

Honestly, being alone has been one of the hardest parts, especially having no family nearby to help when things get overwhelming. I’m just trying to take things one day at a time and do what’s best for my little one. 🥺❤️

I’d really appreciate hearing from other single mamas who have been through this. What do you wish you knew when you first started?

I feel like my fiancee (kids dad) wants to and is babying our kids just a bit but am I being too strict/harsh

We have an almost 3.5 year old and an almost 2 year old (I know they’re still little) I will say I do most of the parenting and find my kids pretty easy when he’s not around but when I’ve left them alone with him their behaviour (mainly our 3 year old) so whiny and annoying after and they are typically not whiny or annoying kids especially for toddlers I feel part of the reason is he will just sit them in front of the tv to make it easier for him or he’ll let them watch him scrolling in his phone these things annoy me as our 3 year old especially struggles after for days (more aggressive with her brother, broken sleep) But then he also feeds them and tells me I should be feeding them which we’ve always done baby led weaning and ofc I fed them when they were babies but they’re at a point now where they can feed themselves, use forks and spoons and even butter knives He’ll put our 3 year olds shoes on for her even though she can do it herself He pretty much gives them what they want whenever they want even if it isn’t the healthiest option or they haven’t been listening I feel like although it isn’t often if it does become a regular thing it makes my life harder in the long run as I’m with them most of the time