Ok, so let me start by saying I get on well with my MIL, my husband’s folks are great and so supportive, we’re lucky!!
When I had my first and went back to work, they looked after our daughter on a Friday and it ended up working out that they’d come to our house and look after her here (again very kind). We had our second who is now 6months and they still cone every Friday even though they don’t need to, to see their grandkids.
My husband has arranged to take me away for my birthday and instead of taking the girls to thier house (like they’ve done with our oldest in the past), they’re planning on staying here at our house, while we’re away.
Is it just me or is the odd??? I’m feeling like my MIL is making herself just alittle too comfortable here at our house and I don’t know how to bring this up with my husband or my MIL as for my own sanity I need her to back off, i need boundaries, I need my space.
Any suggestions? Xx