Domestic Abuse Survivor Mamas

I need help... How do you know if your child is being abused by their dad? What signs are there? symptoms? How do I get help?

She loves him so much but there is this nagging feeling in my gut.... I think he abused me in the marriage but honestly I'm not sure.. If he abused me then I've definitely been abused my whole life and I'm just not ready to go there...

Finally left after he pushed me in front of my children (1 & 2 yo). I had suffered from his emotional, verbal and physically abuse since pregnancy. He is good at playing an act when others are around and I was told I was lucky. I’m emotionally wrecked because now I have to share my girls and not be with them every night, so it breaks my heart. The worst part is his mother decided to have words with me and it’s made things worse. Please give me advice on coparenting, or did you file for custody?

I’m 6 months pregnant and I’m leaving the father. I’m going back to Texas to be with my sister and my support system. He knows I’m leaving. There hasn’t been any fight about it. I don’t care to fight anymore he just doesn’t seem bothered by the fact I’m 6 months pregnant and leaving. He’s been verbally financially and emotionally abusive towards me and his cousin has gotten physical with me. (15 year old boy but he’s the size of a grown man) I’ve packed two bags and I’m taking a bus back to Texas. 50 hours basically all weekend I leave in the morning. I’m leaving my plethora of books here some clothes a lot of stuff I took clothes and irreplaceable things. I’m so shocked by this and I’m not freaking out but I’m terrified to do this on my own. I know that once I’m out of sight he won’t even try to contact me anymore or have anything to do with his son. I feel horrible that I can’t provide my son a father and I know maybe in the future but I am so upset. This pregnancy has humbled me in more ways than one. I am blessed to be able to get out. I am so thankful yet it’s so bittersweet.

I’m currently trying to leave an emotionally. Financially, and borderline physically abusive situation with the father of my child. I had to quit my job today to focus on getting housing and it seems like a lot of the shelters are full. What steps did yall take to get out any advice would be appreciated I’m also in NC if that helps.

I want to leave my boyfriend. We have a child and live separate from each-other. Child stays with me. Every once in a blue something happens where I end of feeling like he would do something if he got angry enough before and after child (silly me). Always showed signs of emotional abuse, but got a aggressive recently with me while in public at a party at club/restaurant . Everything felt aggressive, the extra hard Taps on the shoulder when ready to go and the arm push to get past me in order to leave out of the room, angrily asking for my keys because he had something in my car, his vibe and big eyes he usually gets when mad. Something happened (he just wanted to Leave in general when the taps happened , then felt like someone in our circle touched me inappropriately by time the arm push happened ) at the party to where he got mad and he wanted to get out of there before he reacted, long story short but i had no idea until afterwards. I’m questioning as to if I’m over reacting to this situation. Our child is stopping me from leaving out of fear of the unknown. I haven’t allowed him our personal space but we Have met in public places to allow them to see each-other. Before this, I never trusted him to care for our child away by himself (neglectful) so now I fear of going to court and wonder if they would say 50/50 custody. I am now uncomfortable as our child is in the Middle and due to the neglectful nature and abuse. He is 3. Alot to this story. Feel stuck. Am I overreacting?