This is my first pregnancy and our first baby. It is very important to me that during delivery that only my husband be in the room with me. It’s also important to me to only focus on our new family of 3 as we rest, bond & heal together at least in the first week. My in-laws are very offended by this and feel entitled to see the baby the day after or within 3 days after birth and have made it very clear that “because we raised him (my husband) we have a say”. I completely disagree with this statement, and my husband respects my decision in this but I feel is emotionally manipulated by my MIL with other unnecessary things said during the discussion. I’m feeling very upset over this and don’t want to stand between my husband and his parents, but what I want out of my first pregnancy is also important!! Am I being selfish??