Needing to vent and get advice I guess.Btw I’m not with my baby daddy

I am feeling so depressed today cause last night my baby father tried to start a fight with me over absolutely nothing. He wanted DNA so I said sure let’s do it just let me know the details and I will be there but that somehow made him mad even though I am trying to work with him. Every single time he asks for the DNA I give the same answer which never seems to be enough for him. I am so tired and feeling like a failure cause my son's father is wanting to be an asshole whenever be wants towards me. I don’t wanna fight and make it strictly about our son whenever I do talk to him but it’s so hard when he wanting to be all over the place and try to turn it around to be all about me. Am I that bad of a mother that I can’t seem to do anything right???

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I'm sorry to hear that your going through that. It sounds like a very difficult place to be. I dont know enough to really help but when me and my boyfriend get at eachother we normally take space and when we do reconnect we try to do something that we both enjoy and keep the conversation light. And when we are calm and have had time to reflect we try to hear eachother out. If it's a big issue.. sometimes you have to pick your battles.

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Me and my baby father are not together but I am dating somebody else.

I think your probably doing alot of right things and maybe you need to let him know that you need some words of encouragement and recognition of your efforts and also try to give that to him if you can .. I dont know if this will help but I'm sure your doing a great job and all anybody can do is try your best.

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I am not dating my baby father and he is expecting everything his way only without caring about what might going on with me

Oh ok. Jeez. I'm so sorry. I wish I could help. He deffinantly doesnt sound like he will give you any compliments unfortunately. I think you should know within yourself that you got this and are a good mom because you care it sounds like you care alot and that means your a great mom and should do what's best for you and your baby.

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Ya I have been just focusing on our son for the first year and worked on myself before I even got with my boyfriend. My baby daddy found out I was dating somebody and now he is back to denying our son which is hurting me a lot

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