I went through this same exact thing and it did nothing but cause my daughter and I a lot of heartbreak when I did let him back in. I get ppl are different. But if I could do things differently, I would maybe have met him for lunch or dinner and really have a list of things to go over and boundaries when it comes to me and my child who he missed the first year of her life and asked me to abort. I wish I would have done things differently. My story is identical to how yours started!
@Kelsey that’s exactly what I don’t want to happen. For myself I could care less if anyone were to break my heart but my son doesn’t deserve that. On the other hand the last few months I’ve been feeling like a bad mom for my son not having his father in his life…
Say exactly what you’ve said. If you want to give him a chance to be a father, go for it ! nothing wrong with that. You’ll see almost immediately whether he was worthy of that chance. I felt the same in the aspect of im a terrible mum because i don’t have a father for him but I have to keep reminding myself he’s going to be loved and raised with loved. You’ve got this ! ❤️❤️
If he did that he’s probably not father material… I tried with mine and after 7 months of giving him chances to prove himself I blocked him. But trust your gut and follow your hunch - 💜