My son’s father…

Okay so my son’s father messaged me out of the blue today. After going through the entire pregnancy, birth and first 6 months of my sons life, alone after he told me to get an abortion. That was the last day we talked. October 7th, 2021 to be exact. Now he’s saying how he missed me and wants to start over. I don’t want that but I certainly wouldn’t mind him being a father if he can prove to me that he is father material. Please help me…
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If he did that he’s probably not father material… I tried with mine and after 7 months of giving him chances to prove himself I blocked him. But trust your gut and follow your hunch - 💜

I went through this same exact thing and it did nothing but cause my daughter and I a lot of heartbreak when I did let him back in. I get ppl are different. But if I could do things differently, I would maybe have met him for lunch or dinner and really have a list of things to go over and boundaries when it comes to me and my child who he missed the first year of her life and asked me to abort. I wish I would have done things differently. My story is identical to how yours started!

@Kelsey that’s exactly what I don’t want to happen. For myself I could care less if anyone were to break my heart but my son doesn’t deserve that. On the other hand the last few months I’ve been feeling like a bad mom for my son not having his father in his life…

Say exactly what you’ve said. If you want to give him a chance to be a father, go for it ! nothing wrong with that. You’ll see almost immediately whether he was worthy of that chance. I felt the same in the aspect of im a terrible mum because i don’t have a father for him but I have to keep reminding myself he’s going to be loved and raised with loved. You’ve got this ! ❤️❤️

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