Diapers, size 1 !!!!!

my daughter had a growth spurt and is now moved on to size 2 diapers. I have alot of size 1’s and would love to give to a mama that can use them. I did open up a sleeve, but didn’t get a chance to use it alone with a pack. Everything else is closed. I live in a Far Rockaway Queens area so pick up is available Monday through Friday. and I can even ship to who ever!

Let me know asap and of course first come first serve.

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Head smacking

My 13 month old has started smacking himself on the head. It’s usually when he’s frustrated but he’s never done it before. Anyone else’s doing this and any possible idea why?!

Does it get easier?

My husband is high functioning Asperger’s and everytime our LO cries, he gets overwhelmed and can never attend to her - meaning I have to rush and come back home or run to her.

He shuts down and stares rather than call my help to stop it getting to this point.

I appreciate he thinks he’s giving me a break but makes it worse as I now have to regulate them both 🫠

Any tips as I just want to enjoy 5 mins to myself without having to always jump in because the times I show him my tricks - he’d rather play video games or be on his phone!

He is also having difficulty bonding due to postpartum depression

He keeps saying when she’s older it’ll help him as “what does she have to cry about, you do everything for her”😳 he forgets she’s a baby at times and natural to cry (trauma from his parents)

Have I been going through postpartum

I’ve always assumed that I haven’t gone through postpartum because I haven’t had any super emotional experiences, at least not different from moments I’ve had pre-baby😂. My boyfriend is very helpful towards me with things I (heavy emphasis on I) need, snacks, making sure I have what I need for the house/baby, but he doesn’t help with diapers or feeding/bathing our son. He doesn’t brush his teeth or change his clothes and I’ve been understanding because he works and I’m always home with the baby. It’s very tiring though and I feel like I’m never off the clock. I wouldn’t say it makes me sad but I’ve always kind of felt defeated in that aspect because when we talk about it he says he’ll help out more but I don’t think he knows how to truly help me with the baby in ways that will be relieving for me. It makes me like very angry but because I’m not confrontational I’ll normally just swallow it and let it go. Idk if this could be a form of postpartum or just trails and tribulations of first time parents, what yall think?

Bath

Hi ladies I’m 8 days postpartum after having a c section just wondered when people started too have baths? Just cautious as I’ve been avoiding getting it directly wet in the shower 🥹

Postpartum relationship resentment

My daughter is 8 weeks old and I’ve started to really struggle with my relationship, my husband goes to work every day and I’m starting to just resent how much freedom he still has and how his life hasn’t really changed. Whilst I know he loves her so much I just feel like I carry all of the mental load of everything to do with her. Whenever he makes plans with his friends I feel angry with him and then I realise I’m being unfair and feel like a bad person.. is this normal and will it get better?

Is it normal?

My 2-year-old boy likes to scratch our faces when he’s upset, such as when we pick him up from an activity he’s enjoying. Is this normal?