What would you girls do if your boyfriend/husband were looking at girls half naked?

@Rachel I am fuming because I’ve had to find it out myself and obviously this is our first baby for both of us so I’m just confused because if he’s doing that whilst I’m pregnant what’s he going to be like when baby is here

If you feel uncomfortable with it then it’s not ok. Personally I wouldn’t be happy and would ask what’s he trying to achieve. Others might be fine with it. Just like OF - if my husband was on there looking at women I would be considering it almost cheating because they are real women and they are paying to see them take their clothes off. But everyone is different ( side note I totally support anyone who is a content creator - female empowerment 🔥 but think single men or men who has consent from their partner should buy it)

@Rachel yeah that’s what I mean I wouldn’t be bothered if he would’ve asked I mean I would’ve said no yeah but it’s the principle behind ut keeps telling me how much he loves me and wants a kid with me but In another instance he’s saying this xx

@Em yeah exactly I don’t understand why he would do it when we have a baby on the way like it’s not on he’s acting single on tik tok like everywhere else it’s a profile pic of me and him but on Tik Tok it’s just him on his own xx

Personally I think things like OF/Instagram/TikTok are too far, like someone said real women who they message/interact with feels like cheating, but regular porn I do t seem to have an issue with, mad isn’t it

So sorry to hear hes doing that. You dont deserve that 🥺 Men for some reason can serousily act like they are from a different planet.. If he knows it makes you uncomfortable and is upsetting you you need to deffo pull him to the side and sit him down, and give him the TALK gurl. Express to him how it makes you feel especially now your pregnant. Write down what you wanna say before you chat to him, helps me get all my words out when I need to put my hubby in his place 😆 everyone is different in this subject due to boundaries, however me personally wouldn't let it slide. The healthy reaction would be he apologises and stops immediately. 🙌🏼

Possibly consider it the Same or akin to him watching p0rn. Many people watch p0rn while in functioning relationships with 0 desire to cheat. It is a simple visual stimuli it dosnt show any intention of infidelity. Your in a relationship and he may love you but that dosnt make him asexual towards other women, you are both going to find attractive people attractive regardless of your relationship status- and apart of that reality is that he will find other women attractive, but still choose you. He's not with you because you're the only woman on the planet, he's with you because you're the best woman for him out of a plethora of women and you should feel confident in that.

I'd be mad as it's abut disrespectful however I wouldn't be mad that he's looking. I've always said that just because your with someone doesn't mean everyone becomes unattractive, just matters what you do about it!'xx

I think everyone is different me personally it doesn’t bother me. I’m pregnant with our first too and he follows similar people etc. and I don’t care but that’s me he knows his boundaries he can look.