Ladies I have a question???

So if your talking to someone and you call and text them 2 maybe 3 times a day. And never responds or calls back until the next day. Saying he like his me time and that he's not really focused on y'all right because he's focused on getting a job. And that y'all aren't gf/bf and that ya'll are just dating. And how your constantly calling and texting is a red flag. And that y'all dnt have to talk everyday. Should I just leave him alone or wait until he contacts me??
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I would definitely say keep your options open and let him reach out to you.

@Lauren Thank you he has met my kids, parents and siblings. And was saying all the right things to them and had me smiling and had my oldest daughter so happy for me. Because he was making me smile. He said because i was calling and texting so much it was a red flag. I told him that me being a caring and thoughtful person checking on him. And because I said I wanted to hear his voice wasn't a red flag. I was raised like that and if I haven't heard from a person I check and make sure their alright.

@Jaseen OK thanks. I guess it made him nervous to meet my family but the thing is he invited his self when I told him what I was doing Saturday and Sunday. I guess he's not use to dating a single mom with four young kids. He had 2 boys that are 17&18 and mine are 10,5,and my twins are 4. It really hurt my feeling when he said we weren't bf/gf when he's the one who asked me to be his gf. At this point I just dnt know and to be honest It made me break down and cry in front of my kids. Im tired of being pushed aside

It sounds like he’s playing with your emotions. Why would he invite himself to meet your family then turns around and say you guys aren’t in a relationship. Be careful he might be a narcissist

@Jaseen Thanks I was thinking that too

Leave him alone!!

I don’t like when guys text constantly it’s a red flag to me also. However the fact he’s saying you aren’t in a relationship says that he’s not really into you doesn’t see a future

@Kelly Thanks is sad men do this to woman. Im sick of the bs

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