Are you able to get foster certified? If mom or baby tests positive for drugs at birth they most likely will remove the baby from care. However you should be the first call since you have the brother and are considered family.
@Brittany The complicating factor there is that we’re planning on moving to a different state prior to the baby’s due date. I guess ICPC would come into play anyway though … that might be the move! We were thinking of connecting with an agency in the new state that also operates in our current state and trying to get home study approved prior to the due date!
Not the same circumstances but while my hubby and I were going through the adoption process I had a friend who found out they were pregnant and every time she would go back and forth on whether she wanted to keep it or give it to us. She decided to keep but then got it taken away shortly after and because our foster license was through an agency and not the county they went to another family who happened to have a sibling through foster care as well. I learned with that friend not to get my hopes up because she did it with every pregnancy while we were on a waiting list(4 in all). She currently has the 2 youngest out of the 6 she has.
I've been through this and it is SUCH a rollercoaster of emotions. 2 of 4 siblings were adopted by us. The newest baby was born addicted & in the hospital for awhile. There have been multiple investigations without the baby being removed. It's like waiting for the other shoe to drop. After much discussion, my husband and I have decided that we cannot be an option for future children from the birthmom. Feel free to pm me. Happy to be a supportive ear ❤️
Hi. Can you message me? I am not super active on here but I will keep an eye out for a message. I would love to chat because we also just found out our birth mother is pregnant again.