Mummas… struggle! How is your partner and your relationship?

I feel that we argue so much more, and are just so focused on our Bub that we have no connection. It is so hard! Not to say I don’t love him… it’s just the vibe isn’t there. We focus on our baby boy 100 percent of the time and haven’t had a break due to family living far away. Anyone else feel this way? Is this the normal ? When does it get better haha