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@courtney if a guy told me he had supervised Court ordered docs I wouldn’t blame that on her. Can’t do nothing about it. My cousin is going through courts with his ex wife. Drugs test and AA and he’s never even had a problem. She used to drink and smoke weed with us but now all of a sudden he’s an “addict” to her like girl bye
Wish more women felt this way! 💕
@Deema the guy I just met, his bm has no reason why shes acting the way she acting. He’s about to take her back to court because she’s not allowing any real visits. I tried to help sis out cuz he said she just had another baby so I said well maybe stress and ppd but he said she was acting like that b4 her 2nd kid so idk. My friend his bm don’t think she should communicate about they kids. She changed her # middle of the week. Didn’t tell him, he texted her & said I’m picking kids up today. She calling when school out mad because he got they daughter and she didn’t need to tell him she changed her number. That’s 1scenario of them. My cousin ex wife just wasted thousands of $ taking him to court thinking he would just give up. Tried to take they daughter away with no visits but he pay child support just for her to say she doesn’t want to go to trial and is giving him visits back. Court is a waste of $. When it can be handled in a civil manner.
Give her grace, she is the one raising the kids and you mist know how hard is in the earlier years. She and all baby mommas get to be frustrated, better at times and happy all in one day. Sorry, you get the leftovers of a man she didn't want. Is just not fair for the mamas to be talked down just bc 😕
@courtney I totally understand. Not the case for them they would switch off every few days so she was going to have to give it out eventually. I’ve known him and his kids for 5 years she had always been acting that way.
@Yessi Naomi agreed. I decided to be a single parent so I know it is hard. This post isn’t to bash moms, and again every bm/bd situation is different. This post was strictly for the ladies who have no valid reason to cause negativity in co-parenting
@Baby K I think most guys are reluctant to go to courts because it usually goes in the moms favor. Or just not knowledgeable about going down themselves. Shoot I didn’t know it was free to set up visits so now I can pass this info along
Sure, and kids shouldn't have to suffer. They need their dads
Honestly, I needed to read this right now. Not that I’m the bitter BM (I completely agree with you on that btw), but “I want my child to grow up happy. Not always in drama or turmoil.” That hit me like a ton of bricks, I’ve been teetering on whether to stay or leave my relationship and I think I was supposed to see your post tonight to nudge me in the right direction… so thank you for that, seriously💕
It makes no sense at all. Kill them we kindness don't make anyone see you sweat!!
@courtney he would classify as a DB to me because ain’t no way. Lol this doesn’t pertain to friend. She has every right to feel how she feels especially doing it for so long. Us new gf need to hold these bad dads accountable too. Some women will date a guy who doesn’t handle his responsibilities but be with him, take the gifts and trips when he hasn’t even cared for his kid. And maybe even have another kid with him which is stupid.