Am I wrong?

So my partner is very supportive and takes good care of me overall. I’m 22 weeks pregnant and have a lot of back and hip pain but still try to stay active and do stuff. Today was his brother’s birthday party and we had a get together with the whole family. My partner was playing volleyball and I was sitting with the cousins although sitting really hurts I kept getting up walking around sat back down etc but after 4 hours I was ready to go home. Now he’s mad at me that I made him leave early. We live over an hour away so we couldn’t have gone home separately and I told him from the start that I didn’t wanna stay late. I feel really hurt that he’d disregard my pain like that just because he was enjoying himself.

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Definitely not wrong I’m 24 weeks & often in the same situation. It’s definitely tough for them to really understand what are body is growing thru. I could definitely understand the feeling of you feeling hurt as well we are pretty sensitive right now & only wish they can understand the feeling.

It takes the men a lot longer to adjust to the lifestyle change. You are totally not wrong for being mad at all as he needs to put you first, and you have all the decisions about how long to stay etc.

Definitely not wrong at all, be kind to yourself and also to him too if he is as great as you say. When your both calm, sit down and talk about it so he understands why you wanted to go home when you did, that you’re constantly dealing with pain and sometimes it’s so intolerable and scary you want to be comfortable in your own home. Hopefully he’ll understand that you doing what’s best for baby rather than ending the party early for him xx

Your not wrong , stand your ground girlie he’ll get over it .

Your partner is lucky to have had 4 hours, mine would have only got 2 if i was that uncomfortable. Just ignore the childish behaviour, at the end of the day you need to be comfortable.

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