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My kids dad really thinks I wake up to argue. What kinda stupid shit is that?! I want sex on a regular but he thinks I love to argue because I remember having someone that knew when something was wrong with me, someone that would fix anything for me, taking me out to do things, someone that understood what I said when I said it. But now he’s nothing of the sort and became worst after the stillbirth. Now I just hate him as a person and at this point don’t want him touching me, being near him is becoming unbearable. Can’t wait till I get out of this house.
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It sounds like you guys are both grieving and possibly even both dealing with some PTSD (Ive been diagnosed for years and I know I have similar feelings to what you’re expressing on both sides here when I’m experiencing a PTSD episode). This is such a difficult and painful situation. Regardless of whatever else happens I hope you are able to heal and I am sending you so much love.
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Maybe you could expressly communicate these things in a way that isn't a pejorative. Perhaps he's grieving on his own. I'm so very sorry, but I think you guys would have a better chance if you could communicate in a more effective manner. Tone is everything