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Waiiiit... I just caught on to this not being his baby? Hmmm cause I was gonna say he should take it to court...but frfr he don't have no rights to the baby. Um yeah..... in that case it does sound COMPLETELY different. I say follow your intuition. Let him get the air bnb and do a pop up.🙂
@Leah thank you i really appreciate you sharing your opinion!!
@Veronica right !!!! he keeps saying to me so you really gon do all this cause i am trying to be a good father ? smh so i say , well im being a good human and just backing up , go be a father but understand the way u going about it is disrespectful to me and i don’t approve of it so yeah, I gots to let you go … he saying i’m dead wrong for breaking up with him over something like that … he just toxic too !
@Mary yes Mary thank you , that’s exactly how I am feeling !!
@Niiccy🇯🇲🇬🇧 glad i’m not the only one who feels this way !! I feel like he got me doing wifely duties and he playing house !! but then wana turn around and tell me some shit like this … yeah i told him i would never get in the way of him being a father … so i’ll just back away .. it’s all toxic and i don’t deserve it … period !
@Leah yeah it is commendable but at the same time, separating our family and household just to spend time with her .. as if i’m the bad person or did something wrong ??? You still find that ok ?
I would be pissed and buggin out first off if her mom don't want me around her to fucking bad the bitch shudnt have did wtf she did n he shudnt be allowing such behaviors when you are carrying his actual child he needs to put his foot down or u need to go
Okay first off none of this is okay, it’s very toxic. You need to set boundaries with what you are comfortable with. There needs to be some communication and coming up with a conclusion together. Next off is he on the birth certificate of this girl? If so the best thing to do is see if he can get legal help because it sounds like BM is going to be pulling shit whenever she wants. You don’t need that when you are about to deliver/ have a newborn. Was there a police report filed when she shot the gun off because that would be very helpful in court if he goes that route. Best of luck mama and make sure you and baby are safe mentally and physically!! 🥰
It’s really toxic mama you should take care of yourself and your baby. It’s gonna effect baby too. It’s time you should set up your boundaries.
Ya I wouldn’t be okay with Airbnb either girl , either she comes over or he can pack up or be okay with not seeing her 😮💨
I don't think it really has much to do with accommodating her... but more for the kids. Not saying she's right or that him going with it Is ok... but if the man wants to see his daughter and goes that far to do so...that's commendable.
Can’t lie that can’t run, at this point, it’s me and our family or the kids. Men need to realise they have to make a choice continue to be his ex bitch or a man. “he should be explaining to his daughter that with this situation that happen she can’t be doing sleepovers. However, they can go out and spend the day with each other and when things are in a better then we can resume sleepovers.
You're not wrong AT all. He shouldn't be accommodating her, and her temper tantrums. It's ridiculous. I get he doesn't want to cause any rifts to prevent him from seeing his kids. But what about you!?? He needs to put her in her place. Because she no longer has that spot where she gets to call any shots.
@victoria he says the daughter wants to spend all night with him.. so going to her house isn’t ideal either .. do you think i’m wrong for saying no to airbnb too tho ? And that she can come here or fuck that .. cause at this point it’s about to make me tell him he gots to go
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First of all the fact that the baby mama got the gun is toxic and he should check her about that like what if she shot at you by accident ? That doesn’t prove that she’s strong like that’s some weak shit Foreal. I think you gotta check your man and tell him first off the kids have always been coming to your house - so keep it that way and if he wants to see his baby mama’s daughter than he can go over there to see her if it’s such a big problem for her to come to your house. But honestly you’re pregnant so he really should do whatever makes you comfortable.
@Leah girl yes exactly! but he been there for her since she was born so i understand the bond . but i ain’t doing no pop ups , if it got to be all that i’m good on it