Divorce?

I don't know what to do anymore......when you get married you're suppose to have a partner but I feel like I've adopted a big child....he can't get up and be on time for work, or he comes close to being late, won't get up in time to make breakfast for himself, I ask him to do things for me and I get a heavy sigh and a "I'll do it later" but it won't get done until I do it. I've been a stay at home, work from home mom for about 6 months now and I don't ever get a break from the kids. Don't get me wrong I love them but this momma deserves some me time. I also work hard to tidy stuff up when they get really bad....like my living room this morning. He didn't say shit about it I'm just like....I can't do this.....I wanna feel appreciated, I want to feel special and important, I want to feel loved and I'm not getting that. He tells me he loves me maybe 2 times a day and it's kinda that love you I'm off to work or love you I'm going to bed....any advice?

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I’m actually planning on filing for divorce this week 😔 I hardest part is the kids are going to have a hard time.

It’s hard to say without knowing anything about your relationship history. Have you tried couples counseling or therapy for yourself? Is this new behavior or has he changed? Have you tried talking to him about it when your both calm? Does he understand how unhappy you are?

I understand what you’re going through. I completely understand why women end up being lesbians after having children and/or a crappy relationship. Women and men are completely different breeds. It befuddles me how clueless they can be sometimes. Don’t get me wrong: I love and appreciate a good man. Grown males that act like little boys really gripe me. I’m by no means a man hating feminist. I have experienced some “men” that were so selfish and didn’t have their priorities straight.

Hi, my husband and I have come a long way thanks to some therapy. We are both able to share how we feel and we understand our love language. The big piece here will be if he is willing to put in the effort to make progress. If he isn’t, I don’t know that anything would change

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